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Of your prayers for health and healing

I ask of all my readers your prayers for two priests of the Polish National Catholic Church, Father Augustin Sicard and Father Amaro Rojas of Saint Marin and Saint Rose Parish in San Antonio, Texas.

Father Amaro, together with his wife Rosie, and their children Fernanda and Regina, have prayerfully considered a great and generous gift to Father Augustin. By the grace of God, Fr. Amaro felt the call to donate one of his kidneys to Father Augustine. Both priests underwent the transplant procedure this past week.

The generosity of the Puerto Rican community in San Antonio, and a number of parish members, has also become evident in that they have gathered to help raise funds for both priest’s costs.

Father Augustine made a promise to Our Lady, to shave his head completely when the final decision was made for the transplant.

O Holy Lord, Father Almighty, everlasting God, who by pouring the grace of Thy blessing upon sick bodies, dost preserve by Thy manifold goodness, the work of Thy hands; graciously draw near to us as we call upon Thy name, beseeching Thee to behold, visit, heal and deliver from sickness Thy priests Augustine and Amaro, and according to the multitude of Thy tender mercy, look with favor upon them, grant unto them patience, strengthen them by Thy might, defend them by Thy power, cast out from them all pain of mind and body, and mercifully restore them full health both inwardly and outwardly, that having recovered by the help of Thy loving kindness, they may be enabled to return again to their daily ministry and glorify Thee in Thy Holy Church. Through Christ our Lord. Amen. — A Prayer for a Sick Person from A Book of Devotions and Prayers According to the Use of the Polish National Catholic Church.

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Our Savior PNCC celebrates 80 years

From Mosinee Today: Church celebrates 80 years

Starting out truly as a “church in the wildwood” by a few Polish families in the town of Ried, this month Our Savior Polish National Catholic Church in Mosinee is celebrating its 80th anniversary.

Newly elected Bishop Anthony Kopka will visit Saturday to celebrate with the parish at the 5:30 p.m. Mass. Following the service, an evening meal, prepared by the members, will be served. The public is welcome.

For the past 20 years, the leader of Our Savior’s flock is The Rev. Marion Talaga, who is originally from Poland… Talaga is also is the pastor of St. Mary Parish in Lublin and Holy Cross Mission near Pulaski.

Our Savior has been growing aggressively to meet its needs. A home next to the church building was purchased for use as a rectory, new classroom area and handicapped accessibility added, the church worship area renovated and the lower level social gathering space updated.

According to the Polish National Catholic Church website, the church was founded in 1897 in Scranton, PA. Unlike the Roman Catholic Church, people who are divorced and remarried are openly welcomed to receive the Eucharist, a priest can choose to be married and all [baptized] believers are invited to partake in the reception of Holy Communion.

Our Savior’s is at 804 Jackson St., one block south of the high school and two blocks east of the Rec Center.

Weekend masses are at 5:30 p.m. Saturday evening and 10:30 a.m. Sunday. A social hour follows all Sunday masses.

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Upcoming in the Scranton/Wilkes-Barre Area

Annual Polish Dinner and Basket Raffle: To be held Saturday, October 23rd from 4-7 p.m. at Holy Cross Polish National Catholic Church, 23 Sheridan St., Wilkes-Barre. Adults pay $8; $4 for children 12 years and younger.

Home Style Turkey Dinner: Branch 1 ANS will host a Home Style Turkey Dinner on Sunday, Oct 24 in the St. Stanislaus Cathedral Youth Center, 530 E. Elm St.. Scranton, PA. Takeouts will be available from 10:30am to Noon. Sit down dinner will be served 12:30pm. Crafts and Raffle will also be featured. Tickets are $10 Adults, $5 Children (3-12 Yrs Old). For more information please contact Gloria Makowski at 570-498-3922.

Trail of Terror: Join for a night of fright when St. Stanislaus Cathedral Youth Association sponsors its annual Trail of Terror…..if you dare! Located at the YMSofR Park and St. Stanislaus Cathedral Cemetary on Kane Street in Scranton, PA. Dates: Saturday, Oct. 23rd and Friday and Saturday, Oct. 29th and 30th.

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Can the East be the East?

From the National Catholic Reporter: Protests against ‘Roman imperialism’ at Middle East synod

While the Christians of the Middle East face a staggering variety of external challenges, from the Israeli/Palestinian problem to the rise of radical Islam, it was internal ecclesiastical questions which actually loomed largest during day two of the Oct. 10-24 Synod of Bishops for the Middle East.

Concretely, several representatives of the Eastern Churches of the region registered strong protests against what they almost seem to regard as a sort of “Roman imperialism” inside global Catholicism. Their basic argument is that reforms are required if the identity, authority and heritage of the 22 Eastern Churches in communion with Rome are to be preserved.

Six different Eastern churches from the Middle East are represented in the synod: Armenian, Chaldean, Coptic, Maronite, Melkite, and Syrian. Concretely, different prelates from those churches proposed:

  • Eastern Churches in Europe, North America, and elsewhere should be allowed to ordain married priests, not just in the “historical” territories of those churches;
  • Patriarchs and other heads of Eastern Churches should have authority over their communities all around the world, not just those back home;
  • Eastern Patriarchs should automatically have the right to cast votes in papal elections, and should take precedence over cardinals;
  • The process of papal approval of the election of bishops by the synods of Eastern Churches should be simplified and sped up.

Whether any of those ideas actually survives in the propositions which the Synod of Bishops will eventually deliver to the pope remains to be seen, but collectively they suggest a fairly widespread frustration with what leaders of the Eastern Churches sometimes perceive as a sort of second-class citizenship within Catholicism.

The proposal for married priests came from Archbishop Antonios Aziz Mina, a Coptic prelate from Egypt.

“Since the 1930s there has been a ban on the ordination of and the practice of the ministry by married priests outside the territories of the Patriarchy and the ‘Historically Eastern regions,’ Mina said.

“I think, in line with whatever the Holy Father decides, that the time has come to take this step in favor of the pastoral care of the Eastern faithful throughout the diaspora,” he said.

Historically, the Vatican has been reluctant to countenance the ordination of married priests for communities of Eastern faithful outside their home regions, partly on the grounds that it might call into question the practice of mandatory celibacy for Latin rite priests as well.

Bishop Vartan Waldir Boghossian, responsible for Armenian Catholics in Latin American and Mexico, delivered the most forceful argument in favor of extending the authority of Eastern patriarchs and other church leaders over their faithful who have emigrated outside the traditional territories of that church.

“It is difficult to understand why the activities of the patriarchs, the bishops and the synods of the Eastern Churches should be limited to their territory,” he said. “Of the 23 Churches that today in their own right make up the Catholic Church, only one, the Latin Church, is not subject to this limitation.”

“This paternity and jurisdiction must not be limited to a territory,” Boghossian said. “Limiting it to its faithful is perfectly logical, but not limiting them to a territory, especially if there are no longer members of the Church in that territory!”

The same point was made indirectly by American Monsignor Robert Stern of the Catholic Near East Welfare Association, which said that limiting the power of Eastern structures makes sense given an older “geographic” model of the church, but not so much in light of a more personal approach.

“The limitation of the jurisdiction of Eastern heads of churches ‘outside’ their homelands presumes a geographic model,” Stern said. “ If a personal network, this is not appropriate.”

Mina, the Coptic bishop from Egypt, echoed the argument in favor of extending the jurisdiction of Eastern patriarchs.

Boghossian was also the prelate who insisted that Eastern patriarchs should vote for the pope and trump cardinals, since a patriarch is actually the head of a church in its own right.

“The Patriarchs of the Eastern Catholic Churches, because of their identity as fathers and leaders of ‘sui iuris’ churches that go to make up the Catholicism of the Catholic Church, should be ipso facto members of the college that elects the pontiff without the need for the Latin title of ‘cardinal’,” he said.

“For the same reason, they should also take precedence over [the cardinals],” Boghossian argued.

Mina also offered several practical suggestions for streamlining and expediting papal approval of the election of bishops in the Eastern Churches, which is typically done by the body of bishops meeting in a synod. In effect, he suggested that the pope be regarded as a member of each synod even if he’s not physically present, and that his consent to an election generally be presumed.

Finally, one additional “outside the box” idea was floated in the synod this morning: the creation of a bank of priests ready to give three months to a year in service to a community in the Middle East or some other exceptionally priest-starved region of the world…

The best comment on the whole thing which points out the one major obstacle to Church unity:

Eastern rite Catholics have always been treated by Rome as second class citizens. They’d be better off seeking union with their Eastern Orthodox counterparts until such time as Rome sees the light and ends it’s attempts to exercise direct control of the universal church, both east and west.

The imperial or Caesarian papacy always was fictional and the sooner it dies the better. The pope has no authority beyond his own diocese and the Petrine primacy is meaningless outside a synodical or conciliar structure.

Christ did not choose Peter “Lord of the Church”. Which, due to the exigencies of history, he has come and made of his office. A monarchical office exercising overlordship in all matters. Thus, rendering the local bishop little more than a water carrying toady and “Yes Man” for Peter who gave him his job. This has no warranty in scripture or in the pre-Nicene Church.

There can be no true ecumenism as long as the Church of Rome’s model for governance continues.

Reading between the lines, the Synod is worried. In their native lands, they are divided against their very brothers in Orthodoxy (some more than others, but none are one). In their native lands, the number of people practicing is dramatically decreasing due to emigration resulting from persecution. This is the “staggering variety of external challenges.” Unless these Churches can consolidate and extend their authority over the diaspora, they will wither away. Unless they can be who they truly are, who they are will be lost (except in text books and well meaning encyclicals). As a commentator at Byzantine TX implies: They are not a bridge.

For members of the PNCC looking at this, take note and learn. Unity with Rome means that you may well cease to be who you really are. You will lose what is unique and special about your character, your contribution to the life of the Church may be washed away. These folks have been unified for centuries and they are loosing more than they have gained, gaining only unity with an idea of “Peter” which doesn’t bear up under Church Tradition.

The R.C. Church has frequently directed the Eastern Churches in union with it to be who they are. They should maintain their unique Rites and uses, including the liturgies. They should be considered to have equal bearing and dignity with the Church of the West in communion with Rome. They should not attempt to change themselves (self-latinize – see long discussion here) into something they are not. Unfortunately, the reality is at best mixed to something quite different.

As the Synod points out, well meaning directives never reach reality. Internally, many of these Churches have self-latinized trying to fit in with the much larger Western Church. They have introduced devotions and styles not in their tradition (while anyone can practice whatever private devotions he or she chooses, things outside the tradition of a Church should not be liturgically practiced – in fact, not what the R.C. Church teaches). Externally, the more formal reality can be gleaned from relations among the Churches under Rome, as is pointed out above: the traditions of the Eastern Churches are not fully respected, rather they are “adapted” to whatever the West sees as best for itself (Patriarchs powers are limited, celibacy is a rule if you happen to have a site in the west, and the decisions of the various Synods on election of bishops is long delayed in Rome).

In my view, the best step forward would be the dissolution of these Eastern Churches back into communion with Orthodoxy in their ancient Sees. That would start the process of absolving centuries of mistrust that have built up from the very day these Churches were established. Politically, their very reason for existence (at least at the start) was to stand against the rightful Eastern Orthodox Churches, and to sheep steal. Those hurts remain real to this day. For instance, I have spoken with members of the Armenian Apostolic Church who see the very existence of these Churches as hurtful. They have asked, Why is there an Armenian Church in communion with Rome dividing the small Armenian population in Poland? It may be time for an honest assessment of their reasons for existence, and for some wisdom of this ‘middle ground’ existence. Changing the outward explanations for existence will not suffice.

Another interesting study on this issue from Orthocath in Can East & West Coexist With Married Priests? Thank you to the Young Fogey for the link.

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Will you buy me?

As some may know, there has been a great deal of stress, sadness, and consternation in Cleveland over the closing of many of the area’s Roman Catholic Parishes. A new website, Endangered Catholics, highlights many of the issues of concern.

I previously wrote about one of the Cleveland Parishes who, with a large share of their membership and priest, have formed their own church in: “What will happen next?” These people are taking concrete steps in an effort to do what the PNCC did over 100 years ago, establish that those who support and work for the Church have a say in its management.

People are finding the courage to speak out. The Rev. Donald Cozzens recently editorialized in the Cleveland Plain Dealer on Why our priests remain silent:

In her letter to the editor, “Silence of the priests” (July 31), Frances Babic lamented the silence of Cleveland’s priests in the face of church closings by the Catholic bishop of Cleveland, Richard Lennon.

For some time now, Bishop Lennon has been the target of heated and often cutting criticism for the closing and merging of 50 of Cleveland’s Catholic parishes. But the strongest cries of protest arose over the closing of perhaps 10 to 12 parishes whose spiritual vitality and ability to meet their bills appeared evident. No satisfactory rationale, it was claimed, was ever extended to these parishioners explaining why their churches had to close their doors — only the oft-repeated talking points of demographic changes, financial realities and the shortage of priests.

But the silence of Cleveland’s priests, with the exception of the Rev. Bob Begin (“Priest sends public challenge to bishop on church closures,” The Plain Dealer, March 13), goes beyond the fate of closed and boarded churches. We priests have remained silent because it is our way of life.

We priests have remained silent as evicted parishioners of closed parishes coped with feelings of disorientation and spiritual abandonment while searching for new parish communities — and others decided not to search at all.

We priests have remained silent about our own tattered morale and the widespread spirit of discouragement in the people of our diocese.

I suspect Frances Babic and other Catholics are thinking: What have you priests got to lose? You have no family to support, no mortgage to pay off, no children to educate, and you enjoy unparalleled job security. Why do you remain silent?

Here is why I think we priests remain silent…

In times of crisis, and I believe it is clear that the Catholic Church of Cleveland is in crisis, mature believers need to ask what they can do to help their church regain its equilibrium and renew its spirit. This is especially true of its leaders, its priests.

A few weeks back I spoke with members of a closed Parish in St. Johnsville, New York, courageous folk who have been hurt. Others in the Albany, New York area have made quiet inquiry. Having just spent a few days at Synod, I heard more on the numbers of disaffected Roman Catholics opening talks with the PNCC so that they might found their own parishes; Parishes where they democratically control the parish property and where each member gets a voice and a vote over their parish’s administrative, managerial, and social matters:

In administrative, managerial and social matters, this Church derives its authority from the people who build, constitute, believe in, support and care for it. It is a fundamental principle of this Church that all Parish property, whether the same be real, personal, or mixed, is the property of those united with the Parish who build and support this Church and conform to the Rite, Constitution, Principles, Laws, Rules, Regulations, Customs and Usages of this Church. — Constitution of the Polish National Catholic Church, Article VI, Section 3

The National Catholic Reporter recently did an article on The ‘had it’ Catholics. The article’s slant toward liberalism aside (no, you cannot change defined Doctrine in any of the Catholic Churches), the statistics reported therein are alarming. The goings-on in Cleveland exacerbate the loss of R.C. adherents. As I have noted on previous occasions, people may not necessarily leave the R.C. Church after a forced closing, but their attendance rate drops. They stay nominally R.C. so that they might be buried from the Church. For those who do leave, and desire Catholic truth in a Church where they have a voice and vote, the PNCC should be seriously considered.

When a group of Christians decide that the idea of this Church answers its convictions and desires to organize a Parish, representatives of said group shall communicate with the Bishop of the Diocese and make known its intention. The Bishop of the Diocese, after investigation and being satisfied of the group’s intention and convictions, shall authorize the giving to the group all manner of assistance, furnish it suitable Church literature, legal requirements, a copy of the Constitution and Laws of the Church and a model charter. This action shall be done in concurrence with the Prime Bishop. — Constitution of the Polish National Catholic Church, Article V, Section 2

This Sunday marks both the 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time (C) and the observance of Heritage Sunday in the PNCC. We mark this Sunday as a day to honor the heritage of our members which now spans the ethnic and cultural diversity of this nation and others. As I reflected today, I felt sorrow over the report at the Endangered Catholics site noting that many of the items from Parishes to be closed are being sold off, even while there are appeals before the Vatican over the closings (anyone get the idea that the Bishop already knows that the response to the appeals will be a pro forma “No”). These items are more than glass, plaster, wood, and cloth. They are the pennies of our ancestors and their heritage, the Church Triumphant. They are now the tears of those who have no say over the fruits of their labor, the Church militant. Looking at them, we have to ask, Who will buy me? Who will cherish me? Who will see more in me than outward appearances?

St. Stanislaus Kostka missing the Crucifix he usually carries
St. Wenceslas with Brass Flag

You can have St. Stanislaus Kostka sans Crucifix for $875 and St. Wenceslas with his brass flag for $3,750.

And I said to them: If it be good in your eyes, bring hither my wages: and if not, be quiet. And they weighed for my wages thirty pieces of silver. — Zechariah 11:12

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Church of England Newspaper Cites PNCC Election

From Conger: PNCC elects new prime bishop citing The Church of England Newspaper, Oct 8, 2010 p 6.

The Polish National Catholic Church (PNCC) has elected a new prime bishop at its 23rd General Synod in Niagara Falls, Canada this week.

On Oct 5, the Rt. Rev. Anthony Mikovsky received a two thirds vote from the clergy and lay delegates attending the church’s synod to become the breakaway Catholic Church’s seventh leader.

The PNCC had at one time enjoyed close ties to American Anglo-Catholics and in 1946 entered into full communion with the Episcopal Church. In 1978 the PNCC ended its inter-communion relationship with the Episcopal Church…

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Installation of our new Prime Bishop

The Most Rev. Dr. Anthony Mikovsky will be formally installed as the Seventh Prime Bishop of the Polish National Catholic Church on Sunday, November 21st at 3pm in Saint Stanislaus Bishop and Martyr Cathedral, the Mother Church of the PNCC in Scranton, PA.

All are invited and encouraged to attend this event which only happens in our Church about once every decade. Please continue to pray for Prime Bishop Mikovsky, all of our Bishops, clergy, members and friends, for vocations to the priesthood, and for the entire Holy Polish National Catholic Church.

O God, the pastor and ruler of all the faithful, mercifully look upon Thy servant Anthony, who Thou has been pleased to set as bishop in Thy Church; grant him, we beseech Thee, to be in word and conversation a wholesome example to the people committed to his charge, that he with them may attain everlasting life. Through Christ our Lord. Amen. — A Prayer for a Bishop from A Book of Devotions and Prayers According to the Use of the Polish National Catholic Church.

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Lectures on Christian Division and Reconciliation in Scranton

From Eirenikon: Ecumenical Symposium at the University of Scranton (also at First Things)

A symposium to be held at The University of Scranton on Friday, Oct. 15, will bring together scholars and clergymen involved in the work of ecumenism — the effort to bring into full, sacramental unity Christian bodies that have been long separated and sometimes hostile to one another.

At the beginning of the new millennium, a document issued by the Vatican sparked intense debate through ecumenical circles because of “its candid re-emphasis on singular and exclusive claims of the Catholic Church and its direct reference to what it called the ‘defects’ of other, non-Catholic Christian communities,” said Will Cohen, Ph.D., assistant professor of theology and religious studies at The University of Scranton.

Dr. Cohen explained, “Although the document’s main focus was on relations not between divided Christians, but between Christianity and other faiths, its comments on inter-Christian relations sparked intense controversy and debate, both within and outside the Catholic Church — debate about the nature of the Church, its purpose, the basis of its unity and the meaning of Christian division.”

The event begins with a panel discussion entitled “The Church of Christ and Ecumenism 10 Years after Dominus Iesus: a Symposium on Christian Division and Reconciliation” that will bring together theologians from Roman Catholic, Eastern Orthodox, Polish National Catholic and Anglican traditions to discuss Dominus Iesus ten years after its publication and to consider current prospects and challenges of ecumenical dialogue. The panel discussion, which will take place from 3 to 5 p.m. in room 406 of the DeNaples Center, is sponsored by the University’s Education for Justice Office and the Department of Theology and Religious Studies

In addition, a Catholic Studies Lecture will be presented by Monsignor Paul McPartlan, the Carl J. Peter Professor of Systematic Theology and Ecumenism at the Catholic University of America in Washington, D.C. … Monsignor McPartlan will focus his presentation on the progress of these two dialogue commissions in a paper titled, “An Exchange of Gifts: Catholic-Orthodox and Catholic-Methodist Dialogue.” The lecture will take place at 7 p.m. in the Moskovitz Theater of the DeNaples Center. Monsignor McPartlan’s address will be followed by a question-and-answer period.

Afternoon speakers include the Right Reverend Anthony Mikovsky, Ph.D., pastor of St. Stanislaus Cathedral in Scranton, Pa., and Bishop Ordinary of the Central Diocese of the Polish National Catholic Church (PNCC), as well as a member of the PNCC-Roman Catholic Dialogue; Reverend Dr. Ephraim Radner, professor of historical theology in Wycliffe College at the University of Toronto and a member of the Covenant Design Group, established in 2007 by Archbishop Rowan Williams of Canterbury with the aim of developing an Anglican Covenant that would affirm the cooperative principles binding the worldwide Anglican communion; and Reverend Dr. John Panteleimon Manoussakis, the Edward Bennet Williams Fellow and assistant professor of philosophy at the College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, Mass. and an ordained deacon in the Greek Orthodox Church.

Both the afternoon panel discussions and the Catholic Studies Lecture are free and open to the public. For additional information, please contact Dr. Cohen at The University of Scranton at 570-941-4545.

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Solemnity of the Christian Family

Genesis 1:26-28,31
Psalm 128:1-5
Ephesians 6:1-9
Luke 2:42-52

Remember that you and they have a Master in heaven who plays no favorite

Hugging:

The National Hugging Day website provides these quotes:

Most of us have a little person inside who needs human contact in this stainless steel, computerized society where we are kept at arms length.  Such personal contact makes you feel good.  A good hug warms relationships between people.  Part of the problem huggers face is this guarded age where hugs are easily misinterpreted and subject to a leering look or a lawsuit.  A hug has a universal meaning of support, concern or just a way of saying, “I’m here.” — Chris Thompson, Saginaw News

“We need to know we’re cared about… students need that.  Most of them hug me back-it’s our usual greeting.” Rev. James Stein, Premontre H.S., Green Bay, WI

“We encourage hugging.  We have grandparents who hug the children who sit on their laps, and our staff people rub the children’s backs at nap time to relax them.  Every day should be hugging day.” Mary Van Heuvel, Director, Green Bay Nursery Program

“Hugs make everyone feel good.  It’s a way to know that someone cares.  The need to be hugged doesn’t change when you get older.” Barbara Kuehn Schumacher, Mgr., Ft. Howard [Senior] Apartments, Green Bay

“Touch is life-giving, is healing.  Touching really helps human beings.  Talking doesn’t do a lot for someone who feels rotten, but touch helps alleviate the pain and anguish.  We don’t lose the need for touch when we stop being babies.  We basically need to be touched, although some people do not like to be touched and we have to respect that.  A 1950’s study of institutionalized children showed that even though the children received good physical care, good nutrition, were fed and changed regularly, they became sickly and psychotic years afterward.  They didn’t make it.  They were never picked up and held.  They suffered from a condition that results from the lack of tender, loving care.” Rev. Langdon K. Owen, Director, American Foundation of Religion and Psychiatry in Green Bay

“For human beings, you need two hugs a day to survive, four hugs for maintenance, six hugs to grow.” Virginia Satir, a Wisconsin Marriage and Family Therapist.

St. Paul, in Romans 16 says:

Greet one another with a holy kiss.

Jesus hug:

Do you think Mary and Joseph hugged Jesus when they found in in the Temple? Perhaps they did, out of joy, perhaps relief. Luke gives us the only account of Jesus’ youth. In the narrative Jesus is twelve, still a child according to Jewish Law. This glimpse into Jesus early life may illustrate many things, but most of all it illustrates that the love that existed in Jesus’ earthly family was a real and living love. If Mary and Joseph saw Jesus as anything but the son they loved, no part of the story would have meaning. They wouldn’t have bothered to look, to care, to embrace Him when they found Him.

What do we see:

When we look at each other, first as family, what do we see? Do we see those we wish to greet with a holy kiss, with a hug? Do we see those we wish to affirm in the love of Christ? Do we rush to love as Mary and Joseph rushed to find Jesus?

This process begins in our families. It is the place we learn love, and why our Holy Church celebrates this day. The family that practices tenderness, compassion, and love for each other is the family that stands together in good and bad, that support and encourages each other. When we go home today and look at our children, our spouses, our parents, do we see that person who longs for that hug that connection to family? They are there, plain to us, and we must make every effort to see beyond what we know to what we should know.

That effort then extends beyond the family, the place we learn, to our wider Christian family, the members of our Holy Polish National Catholic Church, and then the members of other Christian Churches. What is practiced at home must be lived in the world. What we know and have, what we take from our homes, takes action in daily life and in the way Christians ought to relate to each other and the world.

Seeing clearly:

Our experiences at home prepare us to see differently in the world, and how we see is essential to whether we can love as family.

Seeing clearly takes work, effort, and starts with the message of God which lives in our hearts. Sometimes it is a quiet whisper, other times a raging storm, but it calls us to be the love of Christ for each other, to affirm and heal each other in love.

Seeing clearly requires us to set aside what we think we see and to see with eyes of love. Our family experiences tell us that what may be outward is not necessarily a reflection of what is inside. If we see only the face, the facade, we miss what is inside.

Try this, pick a picture of any group of people and reflect on it. Look at the faces and the body language and think about what is being portrayed. Do we see friends or enemies, openness or agendas? We can construct a lot of scenarios from that picture, and from how our minds perceive it. Then step back, and look again, but with eyes that see only the love that is in each person and in us. Look at another person and think in terms of their capacity for love, the fact that they do indeed love. The picture is suddenly changed.

Our Christian family needs exactly this kind of love, this kind of seeing. It doesn’t have to be grandiose, but in every small and seemingly insignificant way, we need to consciously show those hugs for the members of our family and to our wider community. The family movie night, hands held at prayer over meals, a note in your husband or wife’s lunch. The hug that says I am there and I recognize and value you. The look that says to our brothers and sisters in faith, I see only your love, not your agenda, nothing but love. The warm handshake or embrace at the sign of peace.

So it is:

So it is with us. We must see the members of our immediate family and our larger family as essential, as vital to our well being. We must see them as necessary to our ability to love, and their love as essential to us.

When Paul talks about obedience and submission today he is not speaking about subservience, but exactly the types of trust and respect we are to have within our families and within the Christian community. Our loving, our embrace of love is both a right and a responsibility. God created this connectedness in creating families, in commanding that we be fruitful and multiply, that we form the bonds of family within our homes, within our communities, within our Holy Church and among all the people God has called to be His own.

Our model:

This past week we concluded Holy Synod. Our Church family gathered together. Was it all peaceful and perfect, of course not. Was there strong debate, opinion, and difficulty, certainly. Are we one Church, yes. Because we are family we see beyond the moments of difficulty to the love that is in each person. We see the great care and concern each person brings, with their voice and their vote, to build the family of Christ. It is the model each of the clergy and delegates learned at home, to care, to be concerned, and to walk away as brothers and sisters, leaving after a holy embrace, a hug, and a word — until we see each other again.

God’s model:

God’s model goes to the heart of the interconnected nature of His people. That is why we celebrate this Solemnity. That is why the Christian Family is so essential to the life of the human family. In the Christian family we find the call to the love, to the perfection of love, to all that is necessary for our very survival, as family, as the Holy Church, as Christians, and as brothers and sisters. God has connected us and asks us to embrace each other – to see beyond the facade and the supposed agenda, to the love that is at the heart of each person. To embrace each person with the love that is within us. To recognize the love in them. Then greet each other with a holy kiss — or at least — a hug. Amen.