Rex Wockner of the Gay City News interviews David Bianco in Taking the Gay Out of Gay Press.
David Bianco was a longtime media leader in the homosexual movement. He has chosen to give up the homosexual lifestyle and sex with men to fully live his Jewish faith.
The article is and interesting read and a great portrayal of one man’s struggle – and witness before his former community. If you understand the inferences in some of Mr. Wockner’s questions, the article is a little scary as well.
For example, Mr. Wockner infers men are not monogamous (“I’m suspicious of male monogamy… Men are not naturally monogamous.“) and that sex is a primal drive that must be put before all else and that must be acted upon (“But what makes you think that this fundamental, core piece of who you are, regardless of how it got there, can be put away and sort of just ignored or not acted on? … This is something much more central to who we are… This is sex.“).
Gee, I never knew that urges must be acted upon. Is that what society wants to be about, the simple facilitation of urges? Sure, I know it’s true, it’s what sells SUV’s, big screen TV’s and lots of other stuff we don’t really need —“ but just have to have.
I prefer Jesus’ thinking on the issue.
And [Jesus] said to all, —If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will save it.
Losing his life is what David Bianco is doing. He is giving up his desires and urges and following God’s way – God’s desires and commands. I wish him well.