Gospel: John 20:11-18
Jesus said to her, “Woman, why are you weeping? Whom do you seek?” Supposing him to be the gardener, she said to him, “Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have laid him, and I will take him away.” —¨
You might very well ask yourselves, Jim, why are you here, dressed like that, providing a Catholic funeral service for a man who considered himself an atheist?
Seems a bit odd, don’t you think?
I will give you an answer a little later.
First, I want to reflect on *********’s life. On the remarkable traits ********* displayed.
********* lived a life of note, and he lived it as a man. He stood for what he believed in, Country, family, hard work, brotherhood. A real man’s man.
When I remember *********, I remember a man of remarkable dignity and elegance.
He was well read, a dashing figure. He loved history, the news, sports, his community, and the things of the earth like his garden and nature.
Certain events illustrate the kind of man ********* was.
Think of family dinners, especially dinner on Easter Sunday. ********* would come to the dinning room table, well dressed. He sat at the end of the table. He never needed to speak loudly. He never demanded anything. He was perfectly polite, calm, and dignified.
More than that he watched his family around him. He took pleasure in their interaction, especially that of the children. He watched them eat the steak he had grilled, with his own special blend of marinade. He watched his family as it blossomed and grew. He didn’t interject himself into the process of seating arrangements, or getting grandma to sit down.
A lot of men would try to control the events going on around them. ********* never needed to, because he was in control of himself.
In the Gospel of St. John, Chapter 21 we read:
When they got out on land, they saw a charcoal fire there, with fish lying on it, and bread. Jesus said to them, “Bring some of the fish that you have just caught.” So Simon Peter went aboard and hauled the net ashore, full of large fish, a hundred and fifty-three of them; and although there were so many, the net was not torn. Jesus said to them, “Come and have breakfast.” Now none of the disciples dared ask him, “Who are you?” They knew it was the Lord. Jesus came and took the bread and gave it to them, and so with the fish. This was now the third time that Jesus was revealed to the disciples after he was raised from the dead.
I recall too the look on *********’s face as his grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and assorted nieces and nephews would sit around him in the sun porch, in the living room, or out at a restaurant.
They would ask questions or tell stories. He would listen attentively, providing little glimpses into his life; the things that would interest a child.
He told them of his childhood, his love for his family, a love he lived in looking after family members. He told them about the one room school house he attended, and about the farm where he was raised.
If you had a chance to look at his face during these times with children you would see a smile, a smile of pure joy.
In the Gospel of St. Luke, Chapter 18 we read:
Now they were bringing even infants to him that he might touch them; and when the disciples saw it, they rebuked them.
But Jesus called them to him, saying, “Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them; for to such belongs the kingdom of God.
Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.”
In these passages we hear of Jesus the teacher, Jesus the fisherman, and in the Gospel passage, I read of Mary Magdalene seeing Jesus as the gardener.
All traits that ********* possessed. All the things he loved in his life. All these things were images of God, and ********* carried them well.
So that is why I am here. I am here to attest to the fact that ********* carried the image of Jesus Christ within himself.
Now of course he was not perfect. He had weaknesses like any man. But isn’t that our hope.
It is the hope in which we all share. That even in our imperfection, even with our foibles and mistakes, we still carry the hope of everlasting life.
The Christian religion, regardless of the brand of Christianity, gives us the opportunity to put into practice the things we know we believe. It connects us in a regular pattern of practice to the figure upon which our humanity is modeled, Jesus Christ.
Brothers and sisters, family,
********* has been called home.
He will stand before Jesus and he will see Jesus the fisherman, Jesus the carpenter, Jesus the teacher, Jesus the gardener.
********* will recognize in Jesus all the things he was. Most assuredly, he will recognize in Jesus the hope to which he has always been called. When he sees that hope in Jesus he will enter the heavenly kingdom.
When Mary met Jesus in the garden beside His tomb she was not meeting a ghost. She met the resurrected Jesus. She met Jesus in whose image she, *********, and all of us will be resurrected.
Jesus told her:
—go to my brethren and say to them, I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.”
********* has gone up to God. He has gone up to his God and our God, to his Father and our Father.
So I am here to tell you that news. To reassure you, in the Christian faith we all share. To let you know that you carry *********’s legacy within you just as you carry Jesus’ image within you.
Remember our brother *********, and remember to develop the image of God that is within you; to practice the faith that assures us of our hope.
*********’s life has not ended, it has been perfected. By our hope our lives will not end, they will be perfected. Amen.