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Where service is king

Two recent experiences in the world of shopping and dining have left me very happy.

I don’t want anyone to think, based on my recent negative commentary on the Home Depot, that I only blog about the bad. I’ve always believed that doing good work and providing great service is worthy of a pat-on-the-back (as well as repeat business).

So here are a couple of outstanding examples of great service:

Nichol’s Market —“ Voorheesville, New York

Nichol’s Market is a mid-sized grocery store, typical of many small towns. It is also one of the few independent markets still left out there.

New York’s Capitol Region has two powerhouse chains as the primary grocery outlets for the area, Price Chopper and Hannaford. Most people shop at those outlets.

Nichol’s has found a niche that makes them successful.

They are small town with all the personal touches that make for a pleasant trip to the grocery. Neighbors meet each other there. The kids know each other from school. The associates care about your needs, and first and foremost, deal with customers as they would with their neighbors.

Nichol’s offers specialty products that cannot be found at the major chains. They make their own ‘Mom’s Kitchen’ deli meats —“ fantastic, fresh, great taste. They have a full service dinner menu, a catering service, a snack bar (coffee for mom and dad, ice cream and Italian sodas for the kids). They prepare their own specialty meats (fresh Polish (white) kielbasa, Italian meatballs, stuffed peppers and giant mushrooms, etc.) and their entire meat case carries fresh, premium quality items (try the boneless chicken thighs on the grill). You can even find kluski (Polish egg noodles). Finally, they carry locally grown produce (Shaul Farms corn, and local apples —“ yum).

If you live in New York’s Capitol Region head out to Voorheesville and shop Nichol’s. You can even order ahead on-line. And, if you see a guy walking around the store with his kids and a clerical collar say hi Deacon Jim.

Miyako Japanese Steak House, Albany (Guilderland), New York

Two Saturday’s ago the family was getting a little —“ well unhappy. It was later than usual, I didn’t feel like cooking, and we had to run over to OfficeMax. My wife wanted Chinese and the kids weren’t interested.

We passed by Miyako Japanese Steakhouse. I had noticed that the restaurant had opened a while back, taking over the location of a former pool hall. I made a command decision and said —“ we’re going there.

We arrived and were greeted very nicely. The owner asked us if we wanted a table. Not knowing better, and never having been there before, I said yes. After our order had been taken the owner and his wife came out. They explained that we would be much happier at a hibachi table and that the kids would have more fun. We agreed.

They, and the waiter, took us to a hibachi table in a separate room.

We’ve had hibachi before (when the kids were too young to remember) —“ and it is entertaining, but sometimes the entertainment takes the place of food quality.

Well not at Miyako. The hibachi chef was great fun. He really focused on the kids and they were in stitches laughing and having a great time. Beyond that, the food was great —“ excellent individual flavors and great quality. My son told the whole room that Japanese people are magicians…

Again, the owners’ personal touch and attention to detail win the day. If you’re traveling Route 20 (Western Avenue) in the Albany, New York area stop in. They have a great looking sushi bar and lunch specials too. It’s well worth it.

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Home Depot —“ further adventures

A Home Depot associate got back to me last night. The information I received on Monday was incorrect. It would take 10 to 13 business days for my patio furniture order to arrive.

I’ve got the steaks, beer, hotdogs, and burgers ready for —“ well perhaps August 18th at the earliest. I best not get my hopes up.

There are so many Home Depot S**ks websites out there. They echo the same story and others even sillier or more horrible. The main Home Depot S**ks site is pretty informative. Just use caution —“ there’s a lot of bitter language out there.

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My first anniversary – one year blogging

I’ve been blogging for one year now —“ glad I made it, and I hope to continue.

I’m sure that my postings have been many things to many people, enlightening, challenging, maddening, frustrating, and funny. If they have moved you to consider something differently then they are of value.

I appreciate all of you who visit and read, or read via RSS or Atom. I appreciate all who comment. I pray for all of you.

Even in this modern age we keep reinventing ways to achieve community. Blogs are part of that, and they connect us in ways that span time, distance, and technology. They are simply an archetype of what God intends for us —“ that we join in community. The Kingdom of God, in its fullness, will be just that, a community joined in praise and worship around the throne of God.

Come Lord Jesus.

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I’m wrong, but the Church is always right

Ben Johnson at Western Orthodoxy recently wrote a posting called So’s Yer Mama.

While he focuses on the tragedy of people taken-in by a non-canonical quasi-religious group that claimed to be Orthodox, his points serve as a good primer on why the Church is different.

What sets the Church apart? Why do the sins and human failings of the Church’s members not degrade its mission or its truth?

People very quickly point to someone like me, a cleric, and say: ‘I remember when you were younger you did such and so.’ ‘You once did such and so.’ You have a track record of [name the sin]. They also say things like: ‘Well the Church is just a bunch of men who…’ or ‘I follow God, not the rulings of men.’

You get the point.

What those people are trying to do is state that my personal history and current sins (or that of any believer, the Pope, a bishop, or priests) negate the truth of the Church.

What people on the outside do not see or realize is that the Church does contain the truth.

Her teaching and directives are not of human estate, but are from God. They also fail to differentiate between the sins of an individual (or many individuals) and the reality of what the Church is. They judge the whole, stating that the entirety of the Church must be sick, because all its members are sick.

Mr. Johnson states:

However, the intent of this blame-shifting sleight-of-hand is to place all the focus upon the Church’s human nature and obscure Her divine nature. The Church, as the Body of Christ, is united with Her Head. The divine mysteries are imparted by men at various levels of rebellion and interior brokenness, so the Church in its human expression has never been without scandal and will never be. However, what sets the Church apart from such as the “monks” of Blanco is the divine pledge of the Holy Spirit’s indwelling presence. St. Augustine of Hippo’s triumph over Donatism affirmed that whatever the human failings of the Church’s representatives, the sacraments still usher the Orthodox faithful into the life of the Trinity (energies). It is only in the holy condescension of Jesus Christ to the flesh, of the His Flesh imparted at the Last Supper, of the perpetual institution of the Eucharist in the Church, and of the sacerdotal ministry’s commission until His “second and glorious advent” that the Orthodox Church may claim preeminence. Not coincidentally, all were gifts of divine grace. “What do you have that you did not receive?”

… The question converts face is not whether they wish to join a church exempt from the possibility of sin, even grave sins. Unfortunately, that option is not open to us … The question each Christian must ask is whether he wishes to remain with sinners in his own denomination — who do not teach what he believes — or join with fallen men in the true Church that affirms his beliefs, has a promise of divine protection, and dispenses the medicine of immortality in the sacraments.

The difference between Orthodox and Pseudodox is not that only one groups sins. Orthodox priests are blessed with the charism of the Spirit, and it is only because they are “endued with the grace of the priesthood” that they are able “to stand before this Thy Holy Table, and perform the sacred Mystery of Thy holy and immaculate Body and precious Blood.” God has empowered Orthodoxy to overcome all sin — clerical and lay — with His sacraments, His Spirit, and the pledge that He will ever preserve His Body from the ravages of the world, the flesh, and the devil. We know of no such promise to the “monks” of Blanco, Texas.

I remember reading, some time ago, about some traditional Catholics’ who objected to John Paul II’s continued apologies on behalf of the Church. ‘We’re sorry because the Church did this or that.’

John Paul was not incorrect in apologizing. He just apologized on behalf of the wrong entity. His apology should have been on behalf of members of the Church who engaged in sinful behavior, not on behalf of the Church.

The Church cannot be sinful, wrong, or in any way incorrect. Only the men and women in the Church are sinful.

That’s what we’re all trying to work out, the avoidance of sin through the sacramental (sanctifying) grace and actual grace given to us by God through His Church.

Membership in the Church does not make me (or anyone) perfect. It simply works to bring us to perfection.

That is why people can point and say I am a sinner and that I do (and did) wrong things. That simply does not change the argument. My personal wrongness in no way affects or subtracts from the rightness of the Church.

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Prayer to the Theotokos

Fr Joseph Huneycutt posted this prayer from St. Ephraim: Prayer to the Theotokos in preparation for the Dormition Fast observed in the Orthodox Church.

O most holy Mother of God, O only Lady who art utterly pure in both soul and body, look upon me, abominable and unclean, who have blackened soul and body with the stains of my passionate and gluttonous life. Cleanse my passionate mind; set aright my blind and wandering thoughts and make them incorrupt; bring my senses to order and guide them; free me from my evil and repulsive addiction to unclean prejudices and passions which torment me; grant my clouded and wretched mind the sobriety and discernment to correct my intentions and failings that, freed from the darkness of sin, I might be worthy to boldly glorify and praise thee, O only true Mother of the true Light, Christ our God; for all creation, visible and invisible, blesses and glorifies thee, both with Him and in Him.

After I read it, all I could think of was that it is a perfect prayer for bloggers to make – asking Our Lady’s intercession. Besides the outward petition for help in freeing ourselves of improper bodily passions, this prayer might also help us keep our words free from prejudice and improper passion, seeking only a clear mind set on the glory of God.

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Whose ecclesiology is it?

This week’s issue of the Evangelist (the Albany R.C. Diocese weekly) has a very nice interview with a Polish priest that visits the area every summer. See: Polish priest has adopted Albany Diocese.

Fr. Krzysztof Podstawka is the rector of a parish in the Lublin Archdiocese and is editor of the Archdiocesan weekly newspaper.

My pastor met Fr. Podstawka after the funeral of Albany’s former bishop. Fr. Podstawka remembered giving a retreat in Poland at which my pastor was a participant. I was impressed when I learned of his sharp memory for such details.

The interview, in Q&A format, was put together fairly well. The most interesting sections were on the differences between the ‘American’ Church and the Church in Poland.

Fr. Podstawka spoke of a priest’s normal duties in Poland, daily confessions (at least forty minutes), three wedding per week (more in the spring and summer), teaching religion in the parish, daily mass, devotions, and seven masses every weekend (with a homily for each).

The funniest question was as follows (emphasis mine):

Q. The Albany Diocese has some guidelines for foreign priests who want to become part of the Diocese, such as a minimum three-year stay, the ability to speak English understandably, and the necessity of understanding American culture and ecclesiological differences. What do you think of those guidelines?

A. They are good guidelines. When a priest comes here from another country, there is a lot to learn. The priest must be able to speak the language of the people. Even if he knows the language, it might be difficult for him in the beginning to fluently speak English.

If we speak about ecclesiological differences, we must be careful. We are one Church; our faith is the same everywhere. But small things about the Mass and other celebrations are different from what they are in Poland. [For example,] the power of the laity [here] is much bigger than in Poland.

Fr. Podstawka gets in right, small cultural differences, no ecclesiological differences.

That is a strong statement. Having been in the Albany Diocese over eight summers, and being as sharp as he is, he knows the glaring ecclesiological differences. This was his moment to teach —“ and he didn’t waste it.

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Can we all be contemplative mystics?

Ben Johnson from Western Orthodoxy comments on people seeking a mystical experience in every liturgical service in A Thirst for Spooky Religion. He works off a post on the same subject by Huw Raphael.

He states that people are looking for:

…something otherworldly, exotic, cryptic, ethereal, irrationally exuberant, a spiritual high, etc…

The experience of liturgies and most especially of the Holy Mass is to lift the eyes of our hearts and minds to God. The architecture, the music, the prayer, the postures and actions we undertake are meant to set us apart —“ for a time. It is a time of refreshment and nourishment for our souls. Each experience of the Holy Mass is a moment in the presence of the Godhead.

In today’s Gospel, Jesus and the apostles couldn’t even get away to rest. They didn’t have time to eat. We too are only allowed a brief break before we get back to working on our own journey to God and to witnessing Christ’s truth to others.

I agree. Seeking the ‘other worldly’ all the time, to the exclusion of our brothers and sisters in the world is sinful. It is escapism rather than acting in accordance with our mandate and our gifts.

Pope Benedict XVI stated in commending terrorists to a cloister’s prayers:

“Contemplative life, rich in charity opens heaven to humanity, which so needs it, as today in the world it is as if God did not exist. And where God is not, there is violence and terrorism,”

Contemplative life can indeed lead to the mystical experience of God. It can open us, and through us the world, to the experience of heaven. However, like all gifts and crosses, it is not for everyone.

Those truly called to such a life have received the grace necessary for the journey. Those seeking that unity with God have a very long and hard road to follow —“ often a lifetime’s journey —“ that may still leave them desiring at the point of death.

Each of us is on a path to God with gifts necessary for the journey. We simply need to remember that:

There are different kinds of spiritual gifts but the same Spirit;
there are different forms of service but the same Lord;
there are different workings but the same God who produces all of them in everyone.
To each individual the manifestation of the Spirit is given for some benefit.
To one is given through the Spirit the expression of wisdom; to another the expression of knowledge according to the same Spirit;
to another faith by the same Spirit; to another gifts of healing by the one Spirit;
to another mighty deeds; to another prophecy; to another discernment of spirits; to another varieties of tongues; to another interpretation of tongues.
But one and the same Spirit produces all of these, distributing them individually to each person as he wishes.

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Why bloggers blog

The Pew Internet and American Life Project has just published Bloggers: A portrait of the internet’s new storytellers (PDF document).

In the study they note the breakdown of the reasons bloggers blog. They are as follows:

The Pew Internet Project blogger survey finds that the American blogosphere is dominated by those who use their blogs as personal journals. Most bloggers do not think of what they do as journalism.

Most bloggers say they cover a lot of different topics, but when asked to choose one main topic, 37% of bloggers cite —my life and experiences— as a primary topic of their blog. Politics and government ran a very distant second with 11% of bloggers citing those issues of public life as the main subject of their blog.

Entertainment-related topics were the next most popular blog-type, with 7% of bloggers, followed by sports (6%), general news and current events (5%), business (5%), technology (4%), religion, spirituality or faith (2%), a specific hobby or a health problem or illness (each comprising 1% of bloggers). Other topics mentioned include opinions, volunteering, education, photography, causes and passions, and organizations.

Cool, I’m part of the 2%. While 2% seems small as a percentage, in real numbers it represents 2% of 12 million bloggers or 240,000 bloggers blogging on religion and spirituality.