A person’s priorities are often defined by the sort of upbringing they receive – not an absolute truth, for people can reject anything – but a general truth derived from the nature (God given) and nurture we receive.

The following article from The Warsaw Voice: What Poles Prize Most illustrates the power of a culture where faith, and its integration into the culture, leads to family being a priority.

Family happiness is prized above everything else by Poles, a new survey has found. Work is the second most important value, according to the study by the CBOS polling center. Nearly 75 percent of respondents said family happiness was the most important for them. Work comes second (50 percent of those polled). Other issues Poles find important include good health (49 percent); peace and quiet (48 percent); honesty in life (47 percent) and respect from other people (43 percent). These are followed by having a circle of friends, religious faith, national prosperity, education, wealth and freedom of speech. Last on the list are success and fame.

Professional work is most often included as one of the five most important issues by people running their own business (83 percent), young people (70 percent of those aged 25-35) and people with a college education (62 percent).

Nearly all respondents (92 percent) agree that work lends meaning to life, that it is worth being a hardworking person and that any job should be performed with commitment, regardless of its importance. Almost 90 percent say that hard work is a necessary condition for success in life. Eighty-four percent believe that working is a moral obligation toward oneself and other people; 80 percent say that good work brings reward or success.

Nearly half of those surveyed (46 percent) say that satisfaction from work is not necessary, while “material benefits” are the most
important. Some 66 percent say that the primary goal of work is to earn money. Interestingly, 55 percent of respondents say that one cannot become rich from honest work.

The poll was conducted in early November on a representative sample of 979 adults.

I believe that the same can be said for immigrant communities in the diaspora. The people I grew up with, or their parents, who were second generation, still held the same values. I remember the good Felician Sisters saying God, family, country. It stuck. Would that it were so for the world.

Holy Family of Nazareth hear our prayer.